
Building Rainbow Families with Heart: How NewGen Families is Changing the Landscape of Surrogacy

When Damien Chambers, originally from Melbourne, first held his newborn son Nathaniel in his arms, he knew his life had changed forever. The journey to fatherhood had been long, complex, and deeply emotional—but it had also ignited a fire within him.
The experience of navigating surrogacy as a gay man had opened his eyes to the many challenges queer people face when trying to build their families. So, he did what only a true visionary would do: he co-founded built by and for the LGBTQIA+ community.
“I always saw myself as a parent from a young age,” Damien recalls. “But when I came out at 19, I thought maybe that dream wasn’t possible. Then I found a book about gay parenting, and it just clicked—this is something I can do. I will be a dad one day.”
Fast forward decades later, Damien’s journey took him through multiple countries in search of a viable surrogacy option. Laws changed beneath his feet, shutting doors just as he was preparing to step through them. “India banned surrogacy for foreigners while I was in the middle of interviewing agencies. Then Thailand followed. It was heartbreaking,” he says. Eventually, he turned to the United States, where the process—though expensive—offered him a clear path forward.
That path led him to Evie, the surrogate who would carry his child and become a lifelong part of his family. “It’s the most awkwardly beautiful meeting you’ll ever have,” Damien says of their initial match call. “There I was, saying to a stranger: I need help. And here she was, saying: I want to help. It was magic.”
Nathaniel was born in Phoenix, Arizona, and from that moment, Damien — who previously had a thriving musical theatre career – knew his calling had changed. With firsthand experience of the emotional highs and lows of surrogacy, he wanted to help others navigate the process.
NewGen Families was born from that passion.

NewGen Families: A Surrogacy Agency with Heart
NewGen Families is unlike any other surrogacy agency. It’s LGBTQIA+ owned and operated, meaning its staff have lived experience, and so a deep, personal understanding of the challenges queer parents face.
“We bring back hope,” Damien says. “So many of our clients come to us feeling broken—having hit roadblock after roadblock. But we help shift their mindset. It’s not an ‘if’ anymore; it’s a ‘when.’”
One of NewGen’s greatest strengths is its sense of community. “We’re not just matching people with surrogates—we’re building relationships that last a lifetime,” he explains.
“Nathaniel has a whole tribe of ‘diblings’—donor siblings—because I’ve also been a sperm donor for multiple lesbian couples. They all know each other, play together, and grow up with this beautiful extended family.”
Damien, now based in Las Vegas, speaks with warmth when he talks about his connection with Evie. “From the moment we met, there was this unspoken understanding. She wasn’t just carrying my child—she was part of my family. She still is,” he says. Evie remains close to both Damien and Nathaniel, working with NewGen Families and continuing to play a role in their lives.
“The women who become surrogates are goddesses. They are angel warriors. What they do is the most selfless, extraordinary gift a person can give,” he adds passionately.
The Legal Hurdles for LGBTQIA+ Parents in Australia
Many hopeful Australian parents face a complex legal landscape when trying to start their families. Surrogacy laws vary by state, creating a patchwork of policies that can be difficult to navigate.
In Victoria, altruistic surrogacy is legal, but commercial surrogacy is prohibited. This means that surrogates cannot be financially compensated beyond medical expenses. In New South Wales, Queensland, and the Australian Capital Territory, the situation is even more restrictive—residents are explicitly banned from engaging in commercial surrogacy overseas. “That means gay dads in those states are forced to break the law just to have children,” Damien says. “It’s completely unjust.”
These outdated laws don’t just impact gay fathers—they affect anyone struggling with infertility. “Egg donation is also severely restricted in Australia,” Damien explains. “Women can’t be compensated for donating their eggs, yet international egg banks can profit from selling altruistically donated eggs to Australians, charging tens of thousands of dollars. It’s completely backwards.”
Because of these barriers, hundreds of Australians turn to international surrogacy each year, often with the guidance of agencies like NewGen Families. “We always advise our clients to do their due diligence and get legal advice early,” Damien says. “Surrogacy is a huge undertaking, and you need to be informed every step of the way.”
Hope and Love at the Core of Surrogacy
Despite the challenges, Damien remains hopeful about the future of family-building for LGBTQIA+ Australians. “I remind people all the time: we have come so far,” he says. “When I came out, being gay was still illegal in Tasmania. We couldn’t get married, and we couldn’t have kids. Now, look at us. We are here. We are thriving.”

At its heart, surrogacy is an act of unadulterated love. “There’s no such thing as an accidental surrogate baby,” Damien says. “These children are the most wanted, the most loved, and the most cherished.”
That’s why LGBTQIA+ representation in the surrogacy space matters so much. “People need to work with surrogacy providers who truly understand what they’re going through,” Damien says. “NewGen Families is here to ensure that queer people don’t have to fight this battle alone. We’re here to make dreams come true.”
For those considering surrogacy, Damien has one final piece of advice: “Stay hopeful. Stay positive. Yes, the journey is complex, but at the end of the day, it’s about love. And love will always win.”
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