My family doctor I had when growing up did his best but gulped when I first had to go see him for a sexual health checkup and he went through the obligatory list of behaviours to see where he needed to swab. I could tell from the conversation we had at that appointment that I knew more about sexual health than he did, and given that I have no medical qualification, that’s not a good thing.

By all means, like George says, shop around. You wouldn’t hesitate to sack your plumber or your electrician, and this is your body (and your life) that you’re entrusting to someone here.