Comments on: A platonic dilemna

By: Diego

Diego — Thu, 10 Nov 2011 22:51:41 +0000

Sounds like someone is jumping in the sack before they’ve considered whether the other person is a serious candidate for a partner. I could be wrong however it seems as though you should focus on what you’re really looking for as opposed to how you end up at square one time and time again.

By: Rodd

Rodd — Thu, 10 Nov 2011 22:43:36 +0000

I think saying they become part of a statistic is extremely pessimistic, some people are going through periods of their life where for whatever reason (lack of complications, time poor, prev bad relationships, etc) where they just want someone for sex and no complications.

Others aren’t really interested in relationships, and good luck to them.

True though, it would be nice if people would be honest up front, if you want friendship or a one-nighter sure but I don’t fuck my mates.

There are quite a few guys who seem to be like this..reality is many think you already know that’s all it’s gonna be.

I’m proactive, a simple “Are we dating or fucking” normally weeds out the FB’s from the potential dates.

Good Luck Maxi, I’m sure you’ll find someone great soon enough who’ll be in sync with what you want!

Oh and you leaving SSO sucks, love your weekly articles, always bring a smile to my face. :)

By: @

Thu, 10 Nov 2011 22:39:27 +0000

imv single and im all yours maxi!!

By: Mark of sydney

Mark of sydney — Tue, 08 Nov 2011 18:49:17 +0000

Very sad to hear your story,you sound like a very nice person.
You mention that They say “We are just friends” I think it’s best to keep away from these sort of people as they seem to be confused or just looking for fuckbuddys,and we all know about fucknuddys,they have lovers who have lovers who have lovers and eventually they become part of a statistic,a sad one.
Possum there are heaps of nice guys out there looking for love and wanting to settle,you just need to know where to look,and the first place is not the scene.
Good luck x