Comments on: A glimpse into Australia’s ex-gay world /news/national-news/new-south-wales-news/a-glimpse-into-australia%e2%80%99s-ex-gay-world/32612 Setting Australia’s LGBTI agenda since 1979 Tue, 04 Jan 2011 04:33:52 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=6.5.5 By: WS /news/national-news/new-south-wales-news/a-glimpse-into-australia%e2%80%99s-ex-gay-world/32612#comment-40675 Tue, 04 Jan 2011 04:33:52 +0000 https://starobserver.com.au/?p=32612#comment-40675 It is imperative that a forum for people who have been brought up on Christian/Muslim homes challenge the leadership on the fundamental human right –
to be safe (physically and psychologically)
to be able to express an opinion that may or may not be the ‘norm’
to have equal access to services – both private and public
to be educated

Australia has ratified the UN Charter on the rights of the child, women, anti discrimination and people with disabilities. It is the task of all members of the community to ensure that all members of our neighbourhood are able to enjoy this freedom.

Away from the rhetoric is hard statistical evidence of people without hope or the ability to see a future for themselves taking their own lives as they are unable to attain the standards set by their spiritual leaders.

Many do not realise that these spiritual leaders are themselves hypocrites setting standards which they do not attain.
The gap between the leader and the follower is an impasse which has no physical or psychological bridge. It is into this gap which the follower falls, suffering mental illness or more soundly still choosing to end their own lives rather than bridging the gap.

Chatting with a young ‘Freedom_2be’ person recently I was overjoyed that he had survived his 2 suicide attempts. This world did not lose a beautiful, caring, loving altruistic young man who had broken free from the shackles of childhood religion.

Furthermore, his family though not fully supportive, are at least no longer negative except him for who he is; a young gay Australian.

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By: chillisauce100 /news/national-news/new-south-wales-news/a-glimpse-into-australia%e2%80%99s-ex-gay-world/32612#comment-25016 Wed, 03 Nov 2010 03:37:01 +0000 https://starobserver.com.au/?p=32612#comment-25016 You’ll have to describe your measuring instruments ‘Aired and Drippin’.

Obviously when you comprehend and empathise with your ‘1000’ gay friends the comprehension and empathy are at the correct levels.

I think that you are a person who tends to exaggerate about your analysis of other people’s actions and your own experiences.

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By: Aired and Drippin /news/national-news/new-south-wales-news/a-glimpse-into-australia%e2%80%99s-ex-gay-world/32612#comment-24990 Tue, 02 Nov 2010 10:14:22 +0000 https://starobserver.com.au/?p=32612#comment-24990 Sickening levels of comprehension and empathy. . . I have close to 1000 closer gay friends and after getting to know them, most of them admit to being sexually “interfered” with when they were children by an man. Most dont want others to know and especially they dont want it misunderstood that they themselves are potential child abusers. They are not. They are gay.

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By: Anthony Venn-Brown /news/national-news/new-south-wales-news/a-glimpse-into-australia%e2%80%99s-ex-gay-world/32612#comment-24980 Tue, 02 Nov 2010 02:59:56 +0000 https://starobserver.com.au/?p=32612#comment-24980 HI K8

Good points.

Just thought I’d let you know this is a freedom 2 b[e] ( ) initiative not ACON’s.

ACON has very generously allowed us to use their premises for the last 5 years for our monthly chapter meetings. For this we are very grateful. We usually get around 40 attending our meetings so without ACON’s help we would find it hard to meet……and get over 4000 visits a month to our website.

All this is about de-constructing the myths, saving lives and empowering LGBT people from faith backgrounds to live authentically.

For many of our special nights like this one LGBT who don’t come from faith backgrounds also come along as they find it relevant.

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By: Anthony Venn-Brown /news/national-news/new-south-wales-news/a-glimpse-into-australia%e2%80%99s-ex-gay-world/32612#comment-24979 Tue, 02 Nov 2010 02:52:21 +0000 https://starobserver.com.au/?p=32612#comment-24979 Hi Mark…..all are welcome. we’d love to have any family members…..friends whatever.

Possibly your parents might not be ready though to attend a meeting like this. From what you have said they might not be in a place where they would be open to look at other possibilities…..but worth a try asking. PFLAG might be more relevant to them at this stage.

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By: Kori /news/national-news/new-south-wales-news/a-glimpse-into-australia%e2%80%99s-ex-gay-world/32612#comment-24962 Mon, 01 Nov 2010 01:08:33 +0000 https://starobserver.com.au/?p=32612#comment-24962 Thumbs up K8.

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By: K8 /news/national-news/new-south-wales-news/a-glimpse-into-australia%e2%80%99s-ex-gay-world/32612#comment-24947 Sun, 31 Oct 2010 08:43:46 +0000 https://starobserver.com.au/?p=32612#comment-24947 The issue of deconstructing and dispelling the false ex-gay belief paradigm is high priority.
Good point made there about misinformed homophobic parents, Mark, howevever, whatever their sons behaviours be it camp or not makes no differences. Equally, the prevalent trendy ‘straight acting’ clones are false and misrepresentative of fundamental homosexual attraction.
Good initiative from Acon in this instance.

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By: Mark of sydney /news/national-news/new-south-wales-news/a-glimpse-into-australia%e2%80%99s-ex-gay-world/32612#comment-24917 Fri, 29 Oct 2010 09:53:49 +0000 https://starobserver.com.au/?p=32612#comment-24917 Can you send your parents?
After “Coming out to My parents” 2 Months ago I recieved a torrid of Verbal Abuse from my Father who considered me as “Sick and Needing help” amongst other things.THIS really Hurt.
As straights mainly the Older Generations only connection with the Gay Community is watching Mardi Gra on T.V It was quickly assumed that I dance half naked on a Float with my arse in front of a camera,or parade around in costume highly resembling a Vegetime Bottle but saying “Sodomite” on it during the parade.
Its Parents that need to attend these classes and if possible spokespersons to Lecture that Not All Gay Men are Camp acting (As Hollywood movies deams us to be) Wear Make-up,and carry on like we deserved to be bashed.
Somethings really hurt when said,And I strongly believe Parents,Brothers & sisters should go to these meetings as well,Thankyou

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